Dating Tips Every Woman Wants A Man To Know
The world is changing. I was just chatting with Karie, a woman friend on Facebook and we got on to the topic of dating. Everyone thinks they’re a pro at dating. Everyone has their routines, be it dinner and a movie, or my favorite, the 5 minute thing where you limit it to one drink at a bar or a coffee. Guys and girls have admittedly differing styles. So I asked Karie for her Dating Tips Every Woman Wants A Man To Know.
She was more than happy to oblige. Here are her 5 top tips for dating women. Listen up guys, this is straight from the mouth of a seasoned veteran.
1) Make her feel special by really listening & asking questions.
Eye contact is very important here. Not too much, then you seem freaky. Just enough to show you’re interested in what she’s saying. To show that you’re listening, use reflective questioning tactics, which is basically respond back with a question about what she’s talking about.
The conversation should be like a slow tennis match. Participate with her, volley back some comments, and you’ll get a perspective on how she feels about your comments. Does she like to be challenged to another level of thought (this is a good thing)? Or does she just want to talk and have you listen, which is more often the case.
2) Give her at least one compliment. 2 is good, don’t over do it..
Women love it when you observe something they meant for you to observe. Did she do something special with her hair? Is she wearing a special outfit. Is the light shining off her face just so right? There’s a timing and rhythm to compliments. You don’t want to just throw it out there. Wait for the right moment. Look her in the eyes. And let her have it.
4) Be totally honest . . .
Women love honesty. They don’t want to be with someone who is guarding their thoughts and feelings. Dating is your chance to be you. And you should love who you are and be willing to share who you are. Be honest, open up, share your faults, your dreams. There is a lot to you, make sure you let them know who you are and what’s important to you.
5) Never talk to a girl about another person.
Girls don’t want to hear your latest exploits with other women. When they’re on a date with you, they want to feel special. Before you say anything, ask yourself this – is this something I’d tell a guy friend – if the answer is yes, save it for then.
When you do spill the beans on another girl you’re dating, you let your current date know that you’re going to talk about them to your other dates. Nothing clams up a woman more than finding out she’s dating the national enquirer and anything she says will be broadcast to the female population.
Now these are just 5 dating tips that every woman wants a man to know and I’m sure there’s a million more. Just be yourself, be honest, focus on your date and don’t ever catch a sneak peek at the flat screen TV on the wall in the bar because once you lose a woman on your date, she’s already move on to her next one. Sure, she may still be out to dinner with you, staring blankly in your direction, and ordering extra drinks to get her over the pain of your company. But know, in the back of her mind, that this date is over and she’s counting the minutes until she’s back home and getting comfy and cozy in bed… Alone…